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I'm Mel. Outspoken. Spontaneous. Lovable. Passionate. Confident. Dreams do come true!
Showing posts with label fashion. Show all posts
Showing posts with label fashion. Show all posts

Wednesday, November 16, 2011

Fashion bit...

Fashion, style, what is it all about? Seriously? Aren't all clothes...fashion? Isn't style based on a personal idea of what you believe to be flattering or appealing? As I sit here on this gloomy, great-for-sleep weather day, watching "Sex and The City" w/ Winter...enough said. This show showcases all types of fashions and styles for all! Chic, urban, grunge, hippy, skater, so on and so forth, men, women and in-between...fashion fashion fashion! What is your personal style? Do you follow trends? What other trends do you like?


It's Fall! Fashion trends will tell you to whip out your browns, blacks, tans, earth tones, oranges, reds and darker  shades to compliment the season. Turtle necks, cashmere sweaters, cardigans...the whole bit. Women, trendy women, will always throw a splash of neon on the darker tones. They must have something that pops!  


Naturally, I would describe my style as Urban/Skater/Casual. T-shirts, polo,  fitted jeans (NOT SKINNY), vest, flannel, button-up, casual shoe/a brown or black boot/dress shoe. I dress everything with my rings (sentimental) and a watch (Try not to over-do it. Do a bracelet or a ring, necklace or a bracelet. Always wear a watch). Lastly, fellas change it up sometimes. Cashmere sweaters, cardigans, jeans vs. pants...casual shoe vs. sneaker...plaid vs. logo shirts (ew!! Those shirts with the 6th grade designs and such..NO!)...To find out more about how I mix and match my style, the inspirations and pieces I pull to form my style, visit GQ, American Eagle, and Esquire-just to name a few!


Ladies, your turn! I was raised by my mom. I have three sisters, a lot of aunts, females cousins and females in general in my life. Needless to say, women apparel has been prominent in my life since forever. Did I mention, I follow, have talked to and recently have gotten to meet fashion icon Kimora Lee Simmons?! Yup! (Follow her on twitter @OfficialKimora.)  Let's get down to business. Heels heels heels! It elongates the legs. It supports the body. It adds curves and enhances a natural standing position...when done properly! Plus, it just looks s e x y!


Tis the season for a brown or darker shade, or animal print boot. A skinny jean and a street-chic shirt. (just a tip (smile)) You all have so many options to choose from. I can't even begin to get into it all. The best look for  a woman, in my opinion, a high high HIGH heel, a jean (skinny, or flare), a blouse (accessorize w/ belt for body flattering purposes if you wish...). Feel free to drape with a blazer. (For more ideas and tips on everyday fashion visit JustFab.com, Elle - just to name a few!)


Again, I can go on and on with you women. Men too! And let me be clear to the fellas. Yes, women have a greater selection to choose from, but our collection is fairly broad too. Mix and match! It goes a long way...ask the women!

Fashion is what it is...fashion; an expression of one's personality through items of clothing, put together to create a style.


*I do not support the killing of animals for fashion purposes. I am an avid supporter of all things fun, fabulous and faux!*


God is love. Love is family + friends.
Mel

Tuesday, November 1, 2011

Hiyeee!, @IAmOfficialMel

Welcome!

Finally, I have decided to blog. For years now, I have contemplated doing this. Yes, I do have a lot to say but you never really know if you have what it takes, if people will read, blah blah blah. All that aside, here goes!


I'm Mel (if you follow or want to follow me on twitter, it is @IAmOfficialMel - I  DO follow back, but please be interesting). I graduated from college last spring. I have a BA in Communications. I do it all...PR, Journalism, Radio & TV. Let me be honest though, Radio & Television is a bit too technical for me. I am a creative person...a visionary. If you ever find me in that field, it will definitely be as: talent or behind the scenes.


I love social groups. I love people and conversations and getting to know one another. I have great friends. Too many to name, but they are all G R E A T! [Yes! You can have more than one best friend! I have several-& NONE of them competes against each other. Not that type of crowd over here!!!]


My family is great. Different relationships, but great. [I'll probably talk about them some in the future.]


About me- I am 23. I will be 24 in the Spring. March baby! #Aries. I'm confident in things I do. Extremely passionate. I'm an artist. I've been acting for several years. So far, only theater. [I've done a small film project, but nothing major.] Music is my first love. Songwriting has always been a passion of mine and I never have and never will give up writing. I love fashion! Simple fashion. Mixing and matching and enjoying clothes!


Did I mention I was middle class socialite? Lol! No, really...I am! [Stay tuned to the blogs and twitter...you'll see!] 


Let's see-I'm an on-to-the-next type of person. I get bored fast. I'm always thinking of "What's next?" I love staying busy. I love the fast lane! I am loud. I talk loud. I argue loud. I will be heard! I dream big. I want a lot. And I believe that anything you want in this life, you can have...in one way or the other. Determination is key!


I do NOT entertain "drama"/negativity. Period. That is all I will say about that.


Now for the "lovable teddy bear" in me, (as my dear friend Fuchsia likes to say...) I care a lot for damn near everyone. When I believe in something/someone, I will be on the front line ready for war. My heart cries when I see people oppressed, or with low self-esteem or uncertain, feeling inadequate...anything A-Z that would damper someone's spirit-I have to fight against. This life is filled with too much goodness and everyone deserves a piece of it.


There's so much more about me - but you will find that out throughout my blogs.


That said, my blogs will typically cover:
-music
-theatre
-fashion
-life
-inspiration
-& FOOD! (I am a FOODie...which is hard to battle at times...[see below])


...& everything else A to Z on what it is being me!


In essence, this blog is intended for that young adult. Finding a job and building a career after college. Finding yourself in this society. Dealing with weight issues... (I too belong to that group. I hope you will follow me, no judgement, as I try to find my ideal weight and size, happiness and contentment with food!) There is no judgement here! 


God is love.Love is family + friends!
Mel